Pride vs Humility.
"He must increase in importance, while I must decrease in importance." (John 3:30)
"We need to understand what humility is and what it isn’t. Some people believe that humility is putting ourselves down: saying that we aren’t smart, or aren’t pretty, or aren’t anything good. This isn’t true.
We all need to have a healthy sense of self-esteem and be secure in what God made us and the gifts he has blessed us with.
So humility is not thinking less of ourselves. Rather it is thinking thinking less about ourselves. Take the focus off us and put it on somebody else, and we’re on our way to being humble."